As I explored through the play party world finding my own sexual liberation, I began to
crave play spaces that affirmed Black people's existence in BDSM and encouraged and
facilitated conscious kink education. I wanted to attend parties frequented by younger yet
experienced kinksters and regularly scheduled classes taught by Black sex educators and
munches for the Black & polyamorous. While I saw a flyer here or there for events such as
these, it was never consistent enough to build the community I was seeking. So I've
decided to create the community I wanted to see!

The Haüs of Bliss is located in Jersey City, NJ.

There are three key parts to the vetting process:

1. Submitting a vetting form
2. Reviewing the "Pre-Cum Meeting" - an intro video to the Haüs of Bliss
3. Completing a "Pre-Cum Meeting" attestation

To become a member of the Haüs of Bliss an approved vetting form and passed "Pre-cum" attestation are required. If requested, there may be a 15-min interview also scheduled.

Once approved, all members are required to sign a liability waiver and NDA form.

Prospective members may access the vetting process here. 

The vetting fee is $77.77 and only needs to be paid once.

Haüs rules are outlined during the Pre-cum Meeting, which is a mandatory introductory video included with the vetting form.

Incidents may be reported here.